“You have given him options. He is the one making it difficult for you to continue funding your home.” “This is absurd. He is beyond entitled and selfish. You HAVE to work, because nobody else is. If I were you, I’d be telling him I will ‘compromise’ by giving him two options — he stays home and takes care of baby, or you hire a nanny and he can GTFO because he’s deadweight at this point.” “OP’s husband is fortunate to have a spouse that supports him. He needs to do what the rest of us do and find the pockets of time that work for him. Maybe he only gets to write while the kid naps. Maybe he has to do it while the wife is home and can take care of the baby. Like, my dude, join the club.”
